Ray Ewing

A Note from the Past Gets an A+

A month ago, I received an email I never expected. As I read it, I felt the hair rise on the back of my neck.

A month ago, I received an email I never expected. As I read it, I felt the hair rise on the back of my neck.

Mishon Lawrence had been a student of mine, 50 years ago. Today she lives in Tampa, Fla. and had been rescuing photographs after the hurricane when she came across the class picture from 1974-75 of Mr. Dresser and his third-grade pupils.

Mishon remembered me and said I inspired her to become a teacher. I was overcome.

After graduating from college, I got a teaching job in Ayer, a small town in central Massachusetts. Teaching jobs were scarce at that time. To get the job, the superintendent of schools requested I shave my beard. And because the woman I lived with was already working in Ayer, he advised me to marry her to eliminate any issue with the school committee. After the first year of teaching, I was allowed to regrow my beard.

I was assigned a third-grade class at Fort Devens, an army base in the waning years of the Vietnam War. Ironically, as a conscientious objector, I had to salute an officer as I drove onto the base. My classroom was self-contained — I taught the 3 r’s, as well as reading Winnie the Pooh to my class, staging a play and typing student essays in a monthly newsletter.

I remembered Mishon, of course, from her name, her smile, her curiosity, her intellect and her enthusiasm. Of the 250 or so students I taught between 1970 and 1980, Mishon came to mind instantly: tall, quiet, with a quick wit and a wide smile, bright, happy and eager to learn.

I emailed her back, asking her for memories and what she was doing in life today.

“I remember Ft. Devens being a great place to be a kid,” she wrote back. “We had the freedom to walk to and from school with our friends and I do not remember much parent concern. I mostly remember a great group of peers without any conflicts, and I remember having a feeling of comfort in class.”

Mishon continued: “Thank you for making me feel safe and having such a positive influence on me that I wanted to be a teacher.”

For me, Fort Devens was a good fit as a teacher. While my masters degree in teaching from Simmons College advocated the open classroom, I preferred the traditional education model, which figured in the military environment of the families of my students. I believe I flourished in the teaching experience and look back on it fondly as an opportunity to become my own person in a work environment, creating an accepting atmosphere and enthusiasm for learning among my young charges.

And now I had heard from one of them. I can see Mishon smiling, as she adds to her recollections of third grade: “I do remember spelling tests that included the words spelled incorrectly from previous tests . . . I believe I had astronaut on my test for the entire school year.”

Mishon shared that she went on to teach students with emotional and behavior disorders for 10 years.  Then, armed with a graduate degree in Varying Exceptionalities,  she taught students with autism and related disorders for 20 years. Talk about dedication. I knew I saw a bright future for her, all those years ago. Now, I’m so proud she shared her success story with me.

Of teaching, Mishon added: “This is my 30th year and I still love it.”

At 58 however, she said retirement is on the horizon

Mishon added:  “I love Tampa. It is where I met my husband of 36 years and where we had our daughter. My daughter is 34, married and has two boys.”

Reconnecting with my past has been a poignant experience. It is gratifying to find I had such a positive impact on one eight year old, half a century ago. It offers clarity and closure to that decade I devoted to teaching the next generation.

Only looking back after half a century do I realize how excited I was as a teacher. Those years were filled with enthusiasm as I came of age as an adult just as the students were learning to read and write. In a very real sense, we were growing up together. Looking back, I can still see that little girl awkwardly holding her pencil, struggling to put her thoughts down on a big piece of paper, and then, with her eyes shining, reading what she has written on the page.

Tom Dresser lives in Oak Bluffs.

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Deborah J Mayhew West Tisbury

My Mom Shirley, who you knew well, left behind a large envelope full of snail mail letters from ex-students form over the years telling her what positive impact she had on their lives, some of them arriving in her 90's. She taught Language Arts in Edgartown from 1966-1986. My Dad John taught Math at the MV High School from around 1960 to 1986, and also tutored math in the summers, and was similarly loved and admired. They both loved teaching, and said they "got out just in time", before MCAS, school shootings, etc. Its sad that teaching is now such a challenging job and teachers are so limited from exercising their own creativity to reach kids.

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