Mourners remember Waylon Sauer with a memorial outside 7a in West Tisbury.

Community Mourns Death of Island Teenager

Waylon Sauer, a junior at the Martha’s Vineyard Regional High School, was killed in a car accident Tuesday evening, prompting an outpouring of grief and support by members of the community.

Waylon Sauer, a junior at the Martha’s Vineyard Regional High School, was killed in a car accident Tuesday evening, prompting an outpouring of grief and support by members of the community.

Waylon was 17 years old and a member of the Wampanoag Tribe of Aquinnah. As family, friends and community members gathered, a ceremonial fire was lit along with traditional singing and drumming by members of the tribe.

His parents are Dan Sauer and Wenonah Madison, who own and operate 7a foods in West Tisbury. Throughout the days following the crash, flowers were laid at the door of 7a.

The crash occurred on State Road in the area of Lambert’s Cove Road, the West Tisbury police confirmed in a press release Wednesday morning. “The operator, a 17 year old, was killed when he drove off the roadway and collided with a tree, speed was a factor in the crash,” the press release said. “At approximately 10:38 p.m. the West Tisbury Police Department, Fire Department, and Tri-Town EMS were dispatched.”

Waylon was an excellent student, a leader, athlete, surfer and fisherman beloved by all, friends said, and as news spread around the Island the community gathered to mourn and comfort each other.

On Thursday evening, Waylon was to be inducted into the National Honor Society, regional high school principal Sara Dingledy said, adding that the event had been postponed.

Waylon on Tuesday evening at Friendsgiving celebration for the Unified Basketball team.
Waylon on Tuesday evening at Friendsgiving celebration for the Unified Basketball team.

“He was a great student in the class room, always curious and engaged, and this year I really saw him become a leader,” Ms. Dingledy said.

Waylon played on the high school basketball team and was also part of the Unified Basketball team this year, Ms. Dingledy said. Unified Basketball is a branch of the Special Olympics that joins people with and without intellectual disabilities on the same team.

“He really was the heart and soul of the team,” Ms. Dingledy said. “He played in the games and he sat with the team every day at lunch, always with that huge smile on his face. It speaks to his overall generosity of character.”

On Tuesday evening, Waylon and his parents participated in the annual Friendsgiving dinner with the Unified Basketball Team.

School adjustment counselor Amy Lilavois said she watched with pride as Waylon stepped into leadership roles this year at the high school.

“I’ve known Waylon since he was tiny and then this year I witnessed him as a true student leader in this building,” Ms. Lilavois said. “He recently took part in the Race and Culture Retreat we had, and he led the Wampanoag Youth Group, revitalizing that group and embracing his culture and inviting other Wampanoag students to participate in it.”

The show of grief at the school is a testament to how much Waylon meant to his peers and teachers and coaches, and the many lives he affected in a positive way, Ms. Dingledy said.

“It is devastating for the students, teachers and staff here,” she said. “Everyone felt connected to him.”

Ms. Lilavois stressed that grief counseling was immediately available for students, faculty and staff, and continues to be available for anyone who needs it.

“At times like this, this community drops everything to help,” she said. “Hospice came, the Island counseling Center came, four of the middle school counselors came, which was wonderful for the students to see those familiar faces. We are here for whomever needs help.”

Carrie Fyler, a former teacher of Waylon’s remembered him in a Facebook post.

“For a year and half Waylon walked into my corner classroom at MVRHS and made my space shine,” she wrote. “He had the best smile. He made my job fun and happy.... Smart and motivated but he knew there was more to life than straight As (although he usually got them anyway)... He cared and he acted from the heart. My heart breaks for all the people who will never get to know this beautiful soul.”

Ms. Lilavois said the thing she will always remember about Waylon is his smile.

“Every single time I saw Waylon he gave me a huge smile and a hello,” she said. “And I know he did that for everyone. He walked with his head held high, leading with his beautiful smile. That is how I will always remember him.”

A wake will be held at the family home at 20 Island Farms Road in West Tisbury on Saturday evening, Nov. 18. A graveside service will be held at the Gay Head Cemetery on Sunday, Nov. 19 at 12 p.m. with a funeral service to follow at the Agricultural Hall. Family and friends are invited to attend.

Comments

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 11/15/2023 - 10:18

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Susan Desmarais Oak Bluffs

Sympathy to this young persons family. Deep appreciation to our first responders who extend expertise and compassion during tragedies.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 11/15/2023 - 11:36

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Gabrielle West Tisbury

My love goes out to the family. May everyone hold them in their hearts.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 11/15/2023 - 14:09

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Nancy Aquinnah

This is heartbreaking
I send my deepest sympathy to this young persons family and friends

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 11/15/2023 - 18:25

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Ms. Angela A. R. Ellis Oak Bluffs

Our family is so saddened to read this. We are praying for his family and of course his friends at school.
May God comfort all.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 11/15/2023 - 18:26

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Lizzy Bradley Edgartown

Sending love to this wonderful family in this most devastating time of tragedy.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 11/15/2023 - 18:36

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Vera Cacique West Tisbury

I'm truly sorry for your unimaginable loss. During this difficult time, may you find strength in the love and memories you shared with your son. Cherish the moments and lean on the support of those around you. You are not alone, and though the pain is deep, time may eventually offer some solace. Sending heartfelt condolences and strength to you and your family.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 11/15/2023 - 23:34

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Simone DeSorcy VH

Much love to my dear friends. Oh my what a wonderful young man taken too early. Godspeed Waylon ❤️

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 11/16/2023 - 00:51

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Jane Norton Chilmark

My deepest condolences to Noni, Dan, their children and extended family.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 11/16/2023 - 09:51

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Darcie Siciliano NYC

Sending love to Dan & Noni & the kids as they move forward in their grief of losing beautiful Waylon. We pray for Grace to watch over them and hold them up during this unbelievably difficult time. XO

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 11/16/2023 - 10:59

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Linda Thompson Chilmark

This is so sad. Waylon was so kind and mature above his years. His love for his siblings was special and a joy to watch from afar. Love to his wonderful family.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 11/16/2023 - 12:17

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Bliss Broyard Chilmark/Brooklyn

Our hearts go out to Noni, Dan and their family. There are no words. Sending our deepest condolences.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 11/17/2023 - 08:11

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suzy weisman chilmark

our love and support to the family at this difficult and sad time. A tragic loss of a beautiful young man.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 11/17/2023 - 12:45

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Vanessa

My heart aches for the Sauer Six. Wishing you so much strength and peace, and the full support and love of the island community that this family has fed for so many years. It is now time for the community to serve you in this time of deep sadness.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 11/17/2023 - 13:54

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Fernando Lana Edgartown

This is such a tragic loss!!! I am REALLY SAD for the family and friends who will without a doubt miss this amazing young life and friendship. SAD!!!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 11/17/2023 - 18:32

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Jeffrey Kendrick Santa Monica, CA

The Kendrick family sends our deepest condolences to both the Sauer and Madison extended families.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 11/17/2023 - 21:43

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Joe Riehl Colorado

Thoughts and prayers for Waylon, his family (his mom & dad especially), his family and all of his people. May they always remember him, his smile and all of the goodness that he brought to their lives for the short time they had with him.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 11/17/2023 - 23:08

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Elizabeth Cunningham Toronto, Canada

I remember Waylon as a beautiful little boy with long wavy hair on our tball team. And Noni, a spunky and doting Mom. I am so saddened to learn this news, seems no right in the world sometimes. May you feel the shining light of Waylon for always & forever.
Xoxo
Elizabeth Cunningham, Ingrid & Ian Jims

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 11/18/2023 - 09:00

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Nancy Rose Steinbock, M.A., CCC-SLP Edgartown

A gaping hole in the community. . .let's hope that those he touched will learn to fill it with their love, empathy and understanding as a tribute to what he gave to them and the world at large.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 11/18/2023 - 10:40

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Marilyn Denton Bedford Massachusetts

Dear Martha's Vineyard,
Please rise up and hold tight to this family as only you can. Hold them, love them, cry with them for those of us that grieve from a distance.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 11/18/2023 - 13:40

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John Hobby Franklin

No words can express our feelings. Very sad. Good family and great kid. God bless.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 11/18/2023 - 16:00

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Thelma Hurd and Robert Urtecho Visalia

Our thoughts and prayers are with Waylon’s family and the Wampanoag community in this time of unimaginable loss.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 11/18/2023 - 16:26

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John P. Manning

Beyond heart breaking. Beautiful tribute to a bright soul who left us too soon.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 11/18/2023 - 16:40

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Charlotte McFarland Baca California

Thinking of you and your family Dan at this time. May all your memories be of a comfort to you.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 11/18/2023 - 20:51

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Nancy O Jephcote Vineyard Haven

I ache for the whole Sauer family and the island community; such a devastating loss!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 11/19/2023 - 20:49

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Kelley Connors Edgartown

My deepest sympathies to the island community and his family. A young life with shining possibilities taken too soon.

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