Herb Foster had a smile for everyone he knew and met.
Alison L. Mead

Herb Foster, Outgoing Islander Who Championed Veteran Causes, Dies at 93

The perpetually vibrant linguist, library trustee and World War II veteran who trained his beaming smile on everyone he knew and met, died Friday night at his home in Edgartown.

Herb Foster, the perpetually vibrant linguist, library trustee and World War II veteran who trained his beaming smile on everyone he knew and met, died Friday night at his home in Edgartown. He was 93 and had celebrated his birthday on Jan. 31 in traditional Herb Foster fashion, with a big party — this time a drive-by of more than 80 friends and well wishers, due to the pandemic. Invitations had gone out by E-vite early in the month.

Linguist, Edgartown library trustee and World War II veteran.
Maria Thibodeau
Linguist, Edgartown library trustee and World War II veteran.
Maria Thibodeau

Edgartown library director Lisa Sherman confirmed Mr. Foster’s death.

“He always had a twinkle in his eye and it was so infectious,” the library director said. “He was an amazing force of nature.”

Mr. Foster had been a library trustee since 2006 and had taken out nomination papers to run again this year, Ms. Sherman said.

A lifelong educator and professor emeritus of the State University of New York School of Education, he was a prolific writer and speaker. Among other things, he had written extensively about Yiddish and Jive, including authoring books on the two slang languages.

He grew up in Brooklyn, N.Y, and his Jewish heritage cultivated his lifelong interest in Yiddish. His introduction to Jive started when he was teaching junior high students in Harlem.

“You have to learn the language of your students,” he told the Gazette in a 2018 interview about his book Ghetto to Ghetto: Yiddish & Jive in Everyday Life. “Students have to learn standard English, but you have to learn their language, too.” He also said:

Mr. Foster behind the wheel for his impromptu July 4 parade last summer, with his friend and fellow veteran Bob Falkenburg.
Maria Thibodeau
Mr. Foster behind the wheel for his impromptu July 4 parade last summer, with his friend and fellow veteran Bob Falkenburg.
Maria Thibodeau

“Every group that came to America contributed their words to American English, but Jews and Blacks have contributed more words than any other groups. This is like a history book. No one has done this before. You have Yiddish books and Jive books, but no one ever put them together as two people who have suffered similar things, but are still alive and doing things.”

It was classic Herb Foster: quirky, humorous and endlessly engaged with his subject matter.

Gregarious by nature, he loved people and also his adopted home town of Edgartown, where he had visited since the 1970s and had moved year-round with his late wife Anita in the 1990s. Also an educator, Anita died in 2006. They were married for 54 years.

Herb was known to just about everyone in Edgartown, where he cut a wide swath across socio-economic lines, from volunteering at the senior center to trekking the annual land bank cross-Island hike on National Trails Day every June.

A decorated World War II veteran and one of the last surviving Islanders from the Greatest Generation, he had served with the 24th Infantry Division in the occupation of Japan and was known perhaps best of all for his fixture role in the annual Veterans’ Day and Fourth of July parades on the Island. This past summer when the Fourth of July parade was canceled due to the pandemic, Mr. Foster decided to take matters into his own hands.

With his friend and fellow veteran Bob Falkenberg, age 93, Mr. Foster revved up his yellow Jeep, and the two veterans drove through the streets of downtown Edgartown, following the traditional parade route, escorted by Edgartown police.

At the oar and paddle regatta on Sengekontacket Pond.
Maria Thibodeau
At the oar and paddle regatta on Sengekontacket Pond.
Maria Thibodeau

“I look forward to the parade every year,” Mr. Foster said. “Despite what’s going on in the country today, it is very important to pay homage to all those men and women who were killed fighting for our country.”

After his impromptu parade, Mr. Foster said it had been emotional.

“We did it, despite all the obstacles” he told the Gazette. “I cried every minute of it.”

Turning reflective, he referred to the poem Ulysses by Alfred Tennyson, which he felt encapsulated the moment.

“It talks about not having the strength we had then, but still being able to fight, to do something,” he said.

It was one of his last public appearances in town.

His daughter Donna was caring for him at the time of his death. He is also survived by his daughter Andrea.

Services will be private, Ms. Sherman said.

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Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 02/27/2021 - 16:07

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Alison L. Mead

I am so sad to hear this. Herb, you were very special to me. To so many people. My thoughts are with your family and friends. See you on the trails sometime...

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 02/27/2021 - 20:42

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Ronnie and Mitchell Weiss Edgartown

We had the privilege of seeing our dear friend Herb the day before he passed. And though we could no longer see that loving, mischievous “twinkle” in his eyes, we will forever carry it in our hearts as we remember him.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 02/27/2021 - 23:42

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Colleen Blackett Edgartown

What sad news! He was just a thoroughly delightful man. May his memory be a blessing for his family and friends.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 02/28/2021 - 11:09

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Barbara Silk West Tisbury

Herb was the Gift to anyone he met!
To say he is missed, is a gross understatement.
Just thinking of Herb brings a smile to my face.
He can rest easy knowing he did this life Proud!
Love to Donna now.
xoxoxoxoxox Barbara

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 02/28/2021 - 12:23

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Carol Devine Edgartown

I always loved running into Herb. Whether it be at the library, the post office, walking down the street, I always knew we’d both end up laughing & smiling. I will miss you, Herb! Thank you for all you’ve shared & contributed to this crazy world. Thank you for always bringing a smile to my face when I think of you. Thank you for being you!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 02/28/2021 - 19:19

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Iris Weinstein East Amherst, NY

Herb was a great guy and a fabulous professor of education. He always had a smile! I’m so happy to have known him and also had the good fortune to meet one of his daughters here in Buffalo last year. My sincere condolences

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 02/28/2021 - 23:09

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Al Pautler Buffalo, NY

Herb was a good friend and colleague at the University at Buffalo for some 30 years. Herb cared about students and was always ready to assist on doctoral committees. Always a smile and never saw him down in spirit. Glad to say that we did play tennis, skied, boated, and fished together. Did visit Herb and Anita on the Vineyard on two occasions. He will be missed. Rest well friend.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 03/01/2021 - 15:56

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Sheila and Paul Bracy Bridgewater, MA

Herb was one of MV’s most loved characters. Talk about a good heart, Herb was open and loving to the Universe. He will be missed by all who knew him. Paul and Sheila Bracy

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 03/02/2021 - 07:11

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Arnie Reisman Vineyard Haven

Herb was a supreme mensch. He will be sorely missed. Among his many accomplishments and passions, he served on the board of the MV Social Justice Leadership Foundation. It was an honor and privilege to serve with him. We will fondly remember the civil libertarian with the big smile.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 03/02/2021 - 07:37

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Linda M. Smith Oak Bluffs

I’m so sorry to hear of his passing. He was a wonderful man never forgetting his NY roots and Jewish heritage. We had many fun discussions. He will be greatly missed.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 03/02/2021 - 10:29

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Geraldine Brooks West Tisbury

He could warm a room with his kindness and good humor. The Vineyard will miss him.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 03/02/2021 - 11:58

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David Nathans Bronxville, NY

We will forever remember that smile and raspy voice, so enthusiastic about seeing you and sharing a story. He was a master storyteller. A great supporter of the Museum, especially the oral history collections, and it was about a year or so ago that he made a presentation on WWII. I will go there to see and hear him again, and to be reminded of his great spirit.

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Patricia Tyra Edgartown & Dania Beach, FL

I had the pleasure of being in a double kayack with Herb 2 years ago in the annual oar & paddle regatta which was the last time either of us paddled and the only time doing a double. Regretfully our phone conversations these past 6 months were few. He is missed. Hopefully the family has many photos as well as memories to enjoy.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 03/15/2021 - 17:10

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Holly Hutchinson Buffalo, NY

I did not know Herb, but reading about him here brings a smile of appreciation. What a remarkable person! May his memory be for a blessing. My sincere condolences to our friend Yonina (Andrea) Foster. May she be comforted by friends, family and cherished memories of her father.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 03/30/2021 - 20:47

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Karin Rozensky Buffalo NY

Herb Foster was an amazing professor. He took time to get to know his students.He went above and beyond in every way, from sharing his stories and life lesson, listening and encouraging others, coordinating experiential winter camping trip in Allegheny State Park, offering a ride when the car wouldn’t start, and being an outstanding role model. Rest In Peace, Dr. Foster.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 03/06/2022 - 10:23

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Laurence M Lieberman Falmouth, Ma.

Of all the commenters,I seem to be the only one who traces his/her engagement with Herb all the way back to Teachers College, Columbia in the late 1960's. Even then, it was a privilege to know him and to hang out as "students". Just being in his presence was a special adventure of conversation and laughter and a never-ending series of ideas and projects. It was thrilling to reconnect with him across the Vineyard sound. I was present at many of his birthday parties. I will miss you Herb. Larry

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 07/21/2022 - 13:04

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Lisa Rott Clarence Center,NY

Just read today of Dr. Fosters passing and was truly saddened by the news. My daughter is trekking on Martha’s Vineyard this week and I was going to suggest she visit my favorite advisor/professor. I thought he would live past 100, smiling and vibrant! My condolences, albeit very late, to his daughters and their families.

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Marcia Randol Chilmark

Herb loved our casino and bisque nights, and he loved to dance and sing! A delicious meal would be followed by drinks and spirited Craps. When we were all in the mood, Herb would entertain us with his in-progress, Yiddish-Jive transliteration of selections from Gershwin’s “Porky Bess”. I wonder if any of this work is preserved? We don’t speak Yiddish, but Herb wrote this, one of our favorites, down for us, seems a fitting tribute to our dear friend:
“Summertime, gay kaken ofn yahm!” Oh, what memories!

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