Sunday afternoons in the summer were for jazz. That’s what the boss wanted, and that’s what she served up.
Sunday afternoons in the summer were for jazz. That’s what the boss wanted, and that’s what she served up.
The wine was chilled, the music hot, cool and slick. Audiences were thrilled. Brilliant pianists like David Crohan, Jeremy Berlin, and David Stanwood cut dazzling riffs, often with sultry torch singers crooning soulfully into the microphone.
Lola’s? The Ritz Café? No, these spirited gigs were in the family room at Long Hill, Edgartown’s gracious nursing home, nestled in a woodsy nook overlooking Vineyard Sound.
The boss was the peppy and striking British-born nurse, Elizabeth Sandland, who looked and sounded like the actress Helen Mirren and who gave an embarrassed chuckle when addressed as “Your Highness.”
This Elizabeth founded Long Hill more than a quarter century ago, and during those years she shepherded hundreds of her elderly charges into their fading days with deep compassion, shrewd judgment, and a resilient, sometimes spicy sense of humor.
On Feb. 8 of this year, Elizabeth’s heart, perhaps the stoutest in Edgartown, stopped beating. Summer afternoons on the Island are now the lesser for it.
I worked closely with Elizabeth for over 20 years, first as an emergency physician and later as an internist and hospice consultant. She constantly amazed me with the dedication and expertise she provided to her patients, their families, and to her staff.
My first encounter with her was at 3 a.m. An ambulance rolled into the E.R. with an elderly, wheezing patient from Long Hill. We had barely inserted the oxygen prongs and measured vital signs, when an elegantly dressed blonde woman blew through the doors in high heels, fresh lipstick and a clipboard in her hand.
In a single breath she delivered a nugget summary of the patient’s problems, a list of tests to be done, meds to be given, and then asked did I have any better ideas of what to do, and if not, could we please get started immediately?
I blinked in disbelief, but her smile quickly disarmed me. She introduced herself and said, “Sorry, Doctor, I sometimes come on rather strong. I do care for my patients.” She let out a girlish giggle, and instantly an enduring collegial bond was forged.
Elizabeth had her own, very direct way of caring for her charges. She created an environment of dignity, efficiency and endless compassion. Some patients recovered and others did not, but all at Long Hill felt welcome, safe, honored. Elizabeth’s team knew her code, and they applied her principles with marvelous effect.
She enjoyed drawing life stories out of her patients. A centenarian had grown up in Russia and recalled the day Czar Nicholas II waved from a train passing through his village. A wispy, dignified woman in her 90s told of the challenges of running an orphanage in Madrid during the Spanish Civil War. Still another in his late 70s had toured Europe as a widely admired jazz guitarist. The sequence of remarkable tales went on, and Elizabeth celebrated them all.
She had her own story. At 22 she left England on a banana boat bound for Jamaica, where she served for two years at Kingston University Hospital. Later she lived and worked in New York then in California at Stanford Medical Center’s cardiac unit. While taking an anthropology course, she met Jack, the man who became her husband, and three years later she gave birth to twins, Jackson and Daniel.
The marriage did not last, and for several years she traveled back and forth between New York and England. After a chance invitation to Martha’s Vineyard, she settled on the Island, starting out in a leaky tent in the Oak Bluffs Camp Ground and later raising the capital to purchase and establish Long Hill. There her twins grew up, and she established her unique assisted living home, where the care was top flight, and jazz and holiday parties, sometimes with karaoke, were always rambunctious and fab.
We in the hospice field were often perplexed by an uncanny phenomenon. Under Elizabeth’s watchful guidance, our patients lived far longer than any of us ever expected. The actuarial tables for Long Hill residents seemed radically skewed toward the outlier category. Families were astonished, as were we.
None of us could figure out why patients with aggressive terminal illnesses lasted so very long up on that woodsy knoll. Whether it was the diet, the ocean breeze, the meticulous, loving attention, or perhaps Elizabeth’s can-do spirit, we all witnessed an eerie stretching of the envelope of protoplasmic viability that baffled all of us.
Elizabeth shared our wonderment with a proud nod. “Yes, isn’t it fascinating!” she would say modestly.
When she was diagnosed with advanced cancer in 2016, Elizabeth took on the challenge with her usual moxie. Staying calm, as her royal namesake might, she began a journal that documented her surgeries, her chemotherapy sessions, her philosophical and religious insights, and the items on her ambitious bucket list.
One passage from that journal: “Most of the time, my whole life, I am floating around a couple of inches off the ground – one foot on Earth and the other in Heaven. This is my normal state of being — not that I was holy — not at all. My brother Chris calls me The Accidental Saint, totally unintended.”
Two months before she died, she bragged in a letter to her oncologist. “I went to the Kentucky Derby, to the Metropolitan Opera, sang in the Messiah, partied and danced and sang and enjoyed my friends. I went to Jamaica, swam with the dolphins, went zip-lining over Dunn’s River Falls, and cycled down the Blue Mountains.”
During this time, she gracefully transferred her remaining patients to other nursing homes, until she was finally the sole resident at Long Hill, attended by her redoubtable assistant and loyal friend, Zima.
I served then as Elizabeth’s physician, and I saw that she never shirked from the reality. “I have seen many patients die, and I am not afraid. I want to be there when it happens.”
Elizabeth had always loved opera. Despite her weakened condition, last December she attended Verde’s La Traviata, a three-hour simulcast from the Met at the MV Film Center.
We spoke about the opera on my final few house calls, and she joked that now she could assume the title role. Indeed, on my last visit, I found her peacefully asleep with a brief note penned for me on her bedside table: “Dear Gerry, I lost my costume. You have to call the stand-in. Sorry, Violetta.”
As the curtain falls on the life of this extraordinary diva, we all know there can be no stand-in for Edgartown’s accidental saint.
Brava, Elizabeth, and thank you. We are all so much richer for your unforgettable performance.
Dr. Gerald Yukevich is a retired physician living in Vineyard Haven.

Comments
I cannot read this without
Marie VHI cannot read this without commenting. Every word is true. Elizabeth was an astonishng friend. I remember visiting when she was in rehab at Bourne Manor. There she was, playing beautifully at their grand piano in the reception hall when I entered. A beautiful woman, a beautiful life. I am sure the angels fought over who would carry her to heaven. But then, she probably said "Don't quibble, now, I am perfectly capable of doing it myself."
A glorious homage to a
Dana Anderson HonoluluA glorious homage to a glorious woman. Thank you, Dr. Yukevich.
We’ll second that,
Marion+simon West tisburyWe’ll second that,
We were blessed to work for
Jeanne Francisco MVWe were blessed to work for her/with her.
Beautifully written Gerry.
Pat TyraBeautifully written Gerry. Thank You! I so enjoyed my visits to Long Hill and time with Elizabeth and her staff as well as my Aunt who was a long time resident there. The 4th of July parties were especially lovely for all. I continue to miss her and Long Hill.
Wonderful to learn about this
Doreen Morse EdgartownWonderful to learn about this remarkable woman. I wish I had known her.
My Mom Doris Goff spent her
Richard Toole Oak BluffsMy Mom Doris Goff spent her last few years living at Long Hill. Elizabeth created a comfortable and caring home for her residents and staff too. All family members were welcome at any time and always treated like guests. Thank you Gerry for reminding us all how lucky we were. Long Hill and Elizabeth will be missed and my great hope is a new Long Hill style Senior Living alternative will be created on the Island so more of us will be able to spend our final days being loved and cared for in familiar surroundings. Richard Toole
Not being a particularly
Jennifer Riseborough Coor Chilmark & CambridgeNot being a particularly religious person, Elizabeth was certainly the closest person I have ever met who deserved Sainthood
What a wonderful place to end ones days , and how many people would give up their office for a patient? But in 2002 my husband Tom had a bed installed as he was unable to manage the stairs.
After Tom's death, Elizabeth and I became close friends, both having trained as nurses in England. We went out for dinner in the winters, everyone knew her and often greeted her with her favorite drink.
As documented by Dr. Yukevich, even knowing that her days were numbered she enjoyed as much as she could. The great hat she bought for the Derby, and worn over her wonderful wig and the shoes to give her a "lift".
El;izabeth never mentioned her journal to me and after receiving it, I was blown away. She was a wonderful friend and with tears running down my cheeks, I feel blessed to have known her/
I miss Elizabeth and Long
Jaqueline Da silva EdgartownI miss Elizabeth and Long Hill so much. I worked for her for 14 years. Long Hill became my second home, always with a warm welcoming from Elizabeth. It brought tears to my eyes reading this beautiful tribute to Elizabeth. Thank you Dr. Yukevich.
It Brought Tears to all our
Zima&Reggie Wareham MAIt Brought Tears to all our eye's .It was full of Memories of Elizabeth You know Jackie ! Elizabeth would say " Now stop all that crying Non-Sense I'm in a better Place and you know it So stop it " But She would have cried too .
There was no other place like
Zima Flanders and Family 26 Ames Island Rd Wareham MA 02571There was no other place like Long Hill The Place I called my 2nd Home for the Last 19 years . Elizabeth was like Family to me . I was so honored to have been there with her when she took her last breath .She deserves all The Honor and Dignity She was so graceful and had such class and yet had such a beautiful sense of humor like no one else . She taught m so much and all the people who surround her . Rest In Peace Forever Queen Elizabeth Sandland ;(
Like Jaqueline and Zima, I
Doreen Grant EdgartownLike Jaqueline and Zima, I too deeply miss Elizabeth. What an amazing woman she was! So caring not only to the residents
of Longhill; but to all of her staff of which I was one. So blessed i had the opportunity to know her. Rest in peace dear Elizabeth.
Thank you for writing this
Jackson SandlandThank you for writing this Gerry!
Really beautiful article and I love the line about the costume.
It put a smile on my face :)
Lots of love to everyone.
It's great to see the outpouring of support <3
Jackson
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