Primo Lombardi at the counter of Papa John's, his popular Oak Bluffs pizza parlor.
Alison Shaw

From Pizza to Yoga, Primo Lombardi Led With His Heart

The first time I took a yoga class with Primo Lombardi it was in the Parish Hall at the Chilmark Community Church — a short walk from his former headquarters at the Chilmark Store.

The first time I took a yoga class with Primo Lombardi it was in the Parish Hall at the Chilmark Community Church — a short walk from his former headquarters at the Chilmark Store.

Unlike many people on the Island, I did not know Primo as the Pizza Man. I met him at the dawn of his days as a yoga teacher. He was excited, enthralled, ecstatic about yoga. And it came through in this class. Decades of feeding people informed his generous teaching style. He fussed over people’s blankets, finger placement and toes. As with a great dish, he knew every ingredient in a pose matters.

As I got to know him a bit more, I appreciated the voraciousness in his pursuit of the teachings and his passion for the practice itself. He followed John Friend, Douglas Brooks and many other masters around the world looking for the shoulder loop, sequences and the sacred. It was wonderful to be around this jubilant fervor.

And then, in a short time, he went full Bodhisattva, upending his bucolic Chilmark life on the pond to move to Oak Bluffs and open a studio on Circuit avenue. His wife Mary, perhaps even more of a fearless warrior, joined him.

So many followed him.

He had, as Mary calls them, “his guys” but he also had his ladies. There are too many to name, but I believe his essential message was what appealed to us all: “I found this thing called yoga. I love it. You will love it too. Come on. I’m getting old. You’re getting old. Just try it. You’ll feel great.”

He was able to coax laughter and ease out of this crop of aging bodies — mine included. He did this with fierce attention and some helpful slogan slinging.

“I call trikonasana tricky-asana” or “Lift the kneecaps, this isn’t beach-asana.”

I remember all this while currently on a yoga retreat in western Massachusetts. As most yogis and yoginis know, retreats are often times where we face the obstacles that impede our practice and breath. Primo was a great fan of the idea and teachings of Ganesha (or Ganesh or Ganapati), the great Hindu god and remover of obstacles. I suspect Primo embraced Ganesha and the intensity of retreats so much because it appealed to his particular aptitude for being able to face down his struggles and thrive.

Unlike Primo, retreats are challenging for me. But on Monday I felt light, free and happy to be on my mat. This surprised me and I wondered throughout the day why this was so. Then, as I was walking out of class at the end of the day, I got the news that Primo had died. Cancer had finally taken his body. My first thought was, “Well that explains it.” Here was Primo, after so much pain and suffering, taking the time to stop by and remind me of my yoga joy as he moved on. I shared this with a friend and fellow student of Primo’s and she told me that a few days ago, she too felt him.

“He’s making his rounds,” she said.

Among his many beloved phrases, Primo’s best was, “Open your heart,” said with a hard, Boston “Haaaart.” But, unlike “beach asana” it never felt like a slogan. When he said, “Open your heart” it came from deep within his barrel chest and opened our hearts.

Primo knew love. He preached it. He practiced it. He was surrounded by it: Mary, Primo Jr., Nina, Ari, his grandchildren, friends, teachers, students, his practice, Martha’s Vineyard, the world.

Primo has left his body, but his soul — a big healing, beating heart — is with all who loved him and were loved by him. And I will honor him as I practice, on and off the mat, and try to always remember that “the advanced version of the pose is with a smile.”

Mollie Doyle lives in Chilmark.

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Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 05/22/2019 - 16:13

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Sherry Sidoti Marthas Vineyard

Beautiful tribute to a beautiful human in every sense of your words. Primo was one of a kind, and I’ll miss our deep chats between classes.
Let’s not forget about his other children— his son Primo Jr. and daughter Ari .

Amy Elias New York

Primo. A warm-hearted, humble and mellow man whose gentle eyes quietly gazes….generous in his vibrational gurus where we met- in Bristal, NY during summer camp with our teacher. RIP and soar around us giving us a hit of your soul’s wisdom.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 05/22/2019 - 22:03

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Gina Patti Oak Bluffs

Thank you for your beautifully written tribute! I met Primo once he opened his studio in OB, though I heard of the “pizza man”. His funny, serious & profound teachings come into my consciousness often. I’m so grateful he was my teacher.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 05/22/2019 - 23:47

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The Desautelle's Oak Bluffs / Connecticut

We are so sad to hear of Primo's passing. It is hard to put into words what a special man Primo was to everybody around him. Kind, thoughtful, caring and genuine - being his neighbor, he would always ask how our family was doing, take an interest in our children, chat about life and fill us in on his grand kids. We will miss him terribly but remember him with the fondest of memories. And, we will always have his special recipe that he shared with us- linguine with clam sauce:) Rest in peace Primo.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 05/23/2019 - 10:11

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Holly Hodder Eger Portola Valley, CA

The island will not be the same without Primo. I am so sad to hear that he was taken so young, although he would have been young at a hundred. He lifted my spirits every single time I saw him. He will be missed.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 05/23/2019 - 19:47

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Linda Mitchell Chilmark

Who could ever forget Primo! A beautiful man with a passionate spirt. Rest In Peace, you will be missed. Hi

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 05/23/2019 - 20:38

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Alexandra Styron Brooklyn

Beautiful elegy for Primo, Mollie. I knew him as my pizza man, daily newspaper-and smile-giver, and friend. When I was a single girl living alone in Chilmark, Primo and Mary’s porch was a happy harbor, extended home, and the center of my community. Thanks for writing this. He will be deeply missed.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 05/23/2019 - 21:17

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Jill Gault Appleton, Wi

What a beautifully written tribute. I wish I had the honor of practicing under his wise teaching. Those same teachings live on in every yogi. Namaste.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 05/24/2019 - 10:26

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Monina von Opel Chilmark

I took one of Primo's first yoga classes when he began teaching at his Pond House, in front of the fireplace... and a last class this winter in his studio - I will miss him forever. His enthusiasm was contagious - he became a remarkable teacher. Mollie Doyle's tribute captured Primo's essence and moved me to tears.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 05/24/2019 - 13:38

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peter goodman Florida and Martha’s Vineyard

Mollie,
Thanks for your share. Primo has left his imprint on so many. We taught yoga together all over the world. I love Primo.
I’ll miss my buddy, one of a kind.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 05/25/2019 - 06:18

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Margaret Bowers Cleveland, Ohio

My sisters, the Bowers Women, met Primo during our summers in Martha’s Vineyard years ago. Being students at the church or OB studio defined our yearly Martha’s Vineyards vacation. A beautiful tribute to KIND & LOVING spirit. I now know why Primo visited my sister and I in yoga this week. Good bye, my Captain. You will be truly missed.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 05/27/2019 - 06:53

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Sharon Guadagno Katama

Thank you for this lovely tribute! Primo will be greatly missed but left us with such beautiful memories.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/28/2019 - 11:13

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Andrew Solmssen Santa Monica, CA

Growing up in the summers, he was the pizza guy. His reinvention as incredibly fit and welcoming yogi was an amazing physical and spiritual transformation. Every year as a summer visitors we would take his class as a family, and he always remembered every name in the room. For the other 11.5 months - and for the rest of my life - his Rhode Island and Mass accented poses and instructions ring out. Metarsals. Mulabanda. Pelvic floor. And always the perfect adjustment of our “ahms.” He was the best and kindest teacher. We will never forget you.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 06/04/2019 - 14:54

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David Dunham Kailua Hawaii

Aloha oe, aloha oe
E ke onaona noho i ka lipo
One fond embrace, a hoi ae au
Until we meet again
Mahalo for all the great times we had selling $3.75 Sunday NY Times to reluctant buyers from NYC at the Chilmark store. You inspired me to take on the Yoga path I am now on. Many years ago I heard Primo ran off to follow a yoga master somewhere in the world ,I said hell ya I want in on this . So glad I got to hear your voice again your always in my heart with a smile.
aloha oe, Namaste my Brother.

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