Lenny Verville started working at Chapman, Cole, and Gleason funeral home in 2000, but his experience in the business began much earlier. His father and grandfather were funeral directors.
When a person dies on Martha’s Vineyard, whether they are in a hospital bed, in their room at the Windemere nursing home, at the scene of an accident, outdoors or at home, whether it is 3:30 in the afternoon or 3:30 in the morning, whether the person is surrounded by family or alone, Leonard Verville will arrive to take them away, and he will be dressed in a suit and tie.
Mr. Verville, known to most as Lenny, is the funeral director at the Island’s only funeral home: Chapman, Cole, and Gleason. He often pauses before he speaks, softly and with a strong New Bedford accent. He draws out the first syllable of his frequent mhm’s and all right’s.
At the funeral home on Edgartown Vineyard Haven Road, Mr. Verville lives upstairs with his longtime partner Linda Hammond, hosts family meetings and visitations on the main floor with the help of his assistant, and does embalmings himself in the funeral home basement.
In nearly 20 years, he has felt a ghostly presence only once. “Lying in bed in probably a dreamy state, but I felt this presence on me, lying on top of me, like on my back. I’m going like, all right, what is that.”
Since his former colleague Michael Hoyt moved away last year, Mr. Verville is always on call. The Martha’s Vineyard Hospital does not have a morgue, so his errands are time sensitive. His schedule is such that he can’t have a pet, or even take care of a plant. And with an aging Island population, he is finding himself busier.
“This past year, 2018, was the busiest that we’ve been, over 170 cases this past year,” Mr. Verville said. Numbers previously hovered between 135 and 145.
There are few people with access to a truer cross-section of the Island community. No matter the circumstances, everyone will eventually die, and when they do, Mr. Verville will be there, quiet and unassuming.
“He’s just Lenny,” said Chantale Patterson, clinical director at Hospice of Martha’s Vineyard. “He has a very unique character, and most of the families we work with, they all kind of love him.”
“Listening mostly,” Mr. Verville said of his approach. “Putting in a couple of kind words and giving them some direction.”
Over the years he has learned about the mourning rituals of many religious faiths, arranged for the transfer of multiple people to funeral homes in Brazil, and coordinated countless cremations in Duxbury (there is no crematory on the Island). He said he usually doesn’t get emotional, but it can be difficult with the young.
“There are some tough times, you know. You’re there with the family and you’re crying with them. You try not to, but you do. You can’t help it,” he said.
Known for accommodating any need he can, he recalled a family who asked to stop at home on the way to the cemetery to take the spirit of their loved one out of the casket.
“The gentleman walked the spirit through the house, came back out and handed me the spirit, and I had to put him back in the hearse,” Mr. Verville said, an act performed with some bewilderment on his part, but solemnly done.
Mr. Verville grew up in the business. His grandfather owned a funeral home in New Bedford, and his father worked there too.
“So I was always mowing the lawn there at the funeral home,” he said.
The first time he went into the morgue, at 10 or 12 years old, he watched his grandfather embalm a body, slowly filling the veins with formaldehyde. “I can remember my grandfather embalming the guy and he was using an arm. And the arm was there and I’m looking at the guy going, that’s cool.”
After high school, he briefly explored other career paths (electrical engineering, carpeting, working in a deli), but when he didn’t feel committed to them, his father intervened.
“Finally my father says, ‘you know what, you need to go to school. Why don’t you go become an embalmer, funeral director... If you just do it, you don’t like it, you’ll always have it. You can always come back to it later on.’”
He initially gravitated to working with the dead rather than with the living. “When I first started I only enjoyed doing embalmings... just staying downstairs. I didn’t want to deal with anybody. No families. That was a lot easier,” he said.
He still likes setting the features, working from a photograph to make a person look as much like their old self as possible.
“It’s pretty good at the end when they say you know what? My dad’s never looked so good. Mom’s never looked so good. It gives you a great feeling,” he said.
After 10 years at his family’s funeral home and a brief stint in Fairhaven, he took the job on the Vineyard in 2000.
“I had never left New Bedford before, so this was like a whole new beginning. Scary too at the same time, leaving home,” he said.
He knew no one, but a friend in New Bedford gave him one name.
“So my friend Mike said you have to look up Arthur Pye. Go to the P.A. Club and find Arthur Pye.”
It was his first outing after moving to the Island. He found the Portuguese American club, walked up to the bar and asked the bartender tentatively if there was an Arthur Pye around.
“I go, is Arthur Pye here? She goes, no. Without even looking around,” he said. “I’m coming from New Bedford. You look around the bar making sure that nobody’s there.”
Puzzled by her curtness, he asked for a beer.
“She goes, are you a member? I go, no. She goes, I can’t serve you. I had to walk out with my tail between my legs, like, that was weird.”
Mr. Verville eventually did find Arthur Pye, and the two grew to be close friends over the next decade. In 2011, Mr. Pye died unexpectedly, and Mr. Verville was in charge of the funeral arrangements for his first Island friend.
“I look at it this way, if someone did die I’d be the one to do it. I’d rather be the one.”
Mr. Verville was raised Catholic, but said he is agnostic about the afterlife.
“I believe it’s whatever you believe. As for myself, I think it’s a cellular death, scientific. Ashes to ashes. Dust to dust. And I think that’s about it,” he said.
As to his own post-mortem plans:
“Cremation, for sure. I’m kind of claustrophobic. Don’t want to be in a casket, not for eternity.”
And after that?
“Take the ashes and scatter them, right now, right there in Vineyard Sound. That’s the best place right now. I kept thinking about Buzzards Bay, going back home to New Bedford too, but,” he said with certainty, “Vineyard Sound.”

Comments
Absolute kind gentleman in a
gina menemsha/nycAbsolute kind gentleman in a very distressed business.. He was the most supportive to me .. He's the best !!
I have used Lenny's services
Albert Fischer West TidburyI have used Lenny's services twice for when my parents passed away.
To put it briefly, Lenny is good at what he does, he's very professional and compassionate.
It's a difficult time when you lose a loved one and I personally can't thank Lenny enough for his kindness.
Nice article. Lenny's a
T Bone Oak BluffsNice article. Lenny's a great guy. Kind and steady as a rock. Linda's a peach, too.
Fantastic article. This
Robert Verville New Bedford, MA and Delray Beach, FLFantastic article. This represents Lenny to a “T” He has always been very compassionate and helpful to many grieving families. Everyone has told me (his father) how they think the world of him and how they love him. My family is exceptionally proud of him.
Lenny is a kind man with a
T Fred Mascolo EdgartownLenny is a kind man with a big heart. Many times of saying goodbye to friends I found him there diffusing sadness. He is always there to help all and is an asset to the Island! Thank God for him.
Lenny
Bob St Germain Oak BluffsLenny
Don't forget to keep your tape measure handy !
SAINT
Our family also appreciated
Pat Tyra Edgartown & Dania Beach, FLOur family also appreciated Lenny's services (and kindness and quiet presence) when both our parents died in Edgartown. And he always has a smile and nod whenever he sees me which unfortunately is mostly at a service or the cemetary.
A very nice article.
Lenny is truly one of the
Gwenn Mead EdgartownLenny is truly one of the most wonderful, compassionate, helpful and knowledgeable people I’ve met. He is professional no matter what hour of the day it is, always has a jacket and tie on. Very soft spoken and is extremely respectful of the deceased and their loved ones. He is a wonderful asset to our community.
Good article..Lenny is a
Angelo DiMeglio Oak Bluffs,Ma.Good article..Lenny is a Great Guy.I didn’t die yet ,,but Everyone is in Highest Respect care with Lenny when the time comes.Where Lucky to have Lenny here on the Vineyard..I've been to other funeral homes and The caretakers look like there ready for the coffin,,grumpy and mad looking....Your in Good Hands with Lenny,..
Lenny is a consummate
Barry Stringfellow EdgartownLenny is a consummate professional who serves Islanders in their darkest hours with genuine compassion. We're very lucky to have him.
First and foremost...Kudos to
John & Jan Wightman West TisburyFirst and foremost...Kudos to Lenny. A totally well deserved acknowledgment of the professional and nurturing personal service Lenny performs when the final heart beat signals a call to his 24 hour, seven days a week telephone number. And then, he's there.....taking care of the deceased, providing direction and guidance to the family...and being Lenny. The communities of this special island are most fortunate that he chose to carry out his mission here.
We love you Lenny !
And,Kudos to Holly Pretsky for telling the story like it is. You nailed it and the comments following the article say so.
And finally, what might Lenny reluctantly say to all this? Mhmmmmm......Yep !
Thank you for this article.
Gayle Vineyard HavenThank you for this article. We really are fortunate to have Lenny here. He's always such a professional and calming presence
at the many memorial services and funerals I've been to in the last several years.
I've known Lenny for 20 years
Islander Martha's Vineyard, MassachusettsI've known Lenny for 20 years. We've never had the need to talk business. But I know one day I'll be a client. I take solace in the fact that someone I can relate to like my own brother will ensure that my wife and children are consoled in their time of need, and that my remains will be disposed of respectfully.
My dad, and by extension our
Prudy Burt West TisburyMy dad, and by extension our family, was lucky to have had people like Lenny and Linda in his life- Linda kept an eye on Dad at the Ocean View, sending along home made soup with me for him, and Lenny was a kind and familiar face when Dad passed at home; that was a very tough time for us. It is so good to know there are still folks like this in the world.
"Lenny!!"
Appreciative Client"Lenny!!"
My mother died in 2005. I was a very young woman at the time and due to family dynamics, was basically the only one keeping everything together. Lenny was probably more accommodating to my requests than he had to be and I still remember him fondly for it.
My mom was island-famous. It was a standing room only funeral and the line at her wake stretched down the CCG driveway, but she also had many close ties off-island. It was March - decidedly the off season. We had so many people who wanted to come from off-island that I told Lenny that we'd need to get a bus to get people from the boat to the funeral home. Lenny looked a little concerned about the request at first, but he made it happen. The bus was a school bus covered in painted flowers (you know, the old tour buses). It definitely stood out in the procession from the funeral home to the church and cemetery, but honestly it added a festive flair to an otherwise grim day and it made for a great conversation piece for years to come amongst our family and friends.
After dealing with so many people throughout that day, including a somewhat-aggressive me, I'm sure Lenny was looking for a place to unwind without having to deal with that day's clients. But the Island being the Island in March, this was no easy task. We all ended up at Off Shore Ale House that night. "Lenny!!," we all greeted him when he walked in. Being the kind professional that he is, he smiled and waved and to his credit, did not run away.
Thank you, Lenny, for all of your hard work and calm understanding of a young daughter who was using funeral planning as a way to process and focus her grief.
We are so very fortunate to
L.B.L. V. H.We are so very fortunate to have Lenny as part of our Martha's Vineyard community.
In 3 years I lost my mom,dad,and husband and Lenny made sure the final arrangements were the best they could be. Every detail was taken care of perfectly. I will always be grateful for Lenny.
LENNY YOU ARE THE BEST,
trip barnes vineyard haven massLENNY YOU ARE THE BEST, PERIOD. END OF STORY
Lenny is always great when
Roger Maxfield EdgartownLenny is always great when ever I have gone to wakes and funerals, he has a great personality and charm about him, making people feel comfortable in a difficult time.
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