Margaret Howe Freydberg, Chilmark Poet, Dies at 107

The poet and novelist whose grace, elegance and remarkable longevity spanned more than a century, died at her home overlooking Stonewall Pond.

Margaret Howe Freydberg, the poet and novelist whose grace, elegance and remarkable longevity spanned more than a century of life, died at her home overlooking Stonewall Pond in Chilmark on Friday afternoon, surrounded by her family. She had recently celebrated her 107th birthday and had published her 11th book three years ago at the age of 104.

“Writing is an absolute need for me — the need to express myself and express experience,” she told the Gazette in an interview in 2003.

Peggy Freydberg, as she was known to most, wrote her first novel, The Bride in 1952.

Her other books included The Lovely April, Catherine’s House, Winter Concert, The Consequences of Loving Syra, Growing Up in Old Age, a memoir, and three books of poetry: Evening on the Pond, In Other Words and Wanting. Many of her poems have been published in the Gazette through the decades. Three years ago she published Cruachan: The Battle Cry of Scottish Chieftains, a long short story, originally written after her first and only visit to Scotland in the 1950s.

She had known she wanted to be a writer since she was a child but did not begin until she was married for the second time, after her first husband Sam Sloan, an editor and publisher, died unexpectedly at the age of 50 from complications of hip surgery. Her second husband, Nick Freydberg, was a book publisher.

“Nick had a sailboat and we were out sailing and I thought to myself, ‘Why don’t I write a book about the first day of a woman’s married life, and that was exactly what I did,” she recalled in a 2012 interview in the Gazette.

Nick and Peggy first visited the Vineyard in the 1950s, staying at a friend’s house at East Meadow in Chilmark.

“We were sitting there at dusk and the breeze was blowing across the fields of honeysuckle and roses and Nick and I looked at each other and said, this is where we will retire,” she recalled to the Gazette.

They moved to the Vineyard permanently in 1968.

Her family background was more scientific than literary; her father, Winthrop Keith Howe, was an inventor who designed the signal system for the New York city subway system and the Oakland Bay Bridge in California.

She recalled attending the Masters School in Dobbs Ferry, N.Y., as a young girl. “I assumed it would be all about writing home for cookies and talking in bed after lights out,” she said. But she wasn’t prepared to study.

“I was called to the dean’s office after six months and I was told I would be expelled if my marks didn’t improve. I’d been in a suite with four other girls, but they put me in a room all by myself and they said, study,” she said. “And I found that I loved to study. I’d sit in the library surrounded by all those books and it was wonderful.”

Peggy wrote in longhand on a yellow legal pad, although after she had turned 100 she became frustrated when her penmanship declined due to macular degeneration. By all accounts her longevity was extraordinary.

After she became a novelist she began to write poetry.

“The glory and the challenge of poetry is finding exactly what you want to say,” she told the Gazette in 2003.

Last fall she attended a reading held in her honor on the Vineyard, where 11 people read passages from her books.

Early this month she was honored at a party as she turned 107.

A book of her poetry is about to be published by Laurie David, a Chilmark resident.

In the 2012 Gazette interview she said: “Nick never understood why I needed to be published. He thought that the writing itself should be enough. Well, if I never thought I was going to be published, I’m sure I would write anyway, but I don’t think that the work you’ve done is ever complete until it’s been received.”

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Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 03/28/2015 - 04:51

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Rob Burnside Kingston, PA

I haven't read her fiction, and have only recently read some of her verse, but I believe its truly "world class" and look forward to Laurie David's collection. It should be very well-received. Clearly, Nick underestimated Peggy's art. Just as clearly,she forgave him for it.

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louise DuArt SQuire Rushnell edgartown

Such an inspiration. Margaret's life gives us all hope that it doesn't matter our age....we can continue to grow and be creative. Can't wait to read her book of poetry that Laurie David is publishing.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 03/28/2015 - 10:15

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Geraldine Brooks West Tisbury

Her poetry is searing and beautiful. It ensures she will have a glorious afterlife.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 03/28/2015 - 11:34

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Marina Drasnin Santa Monica

I willl hear, share and cherish her words of wisdom, irony and observation for all my life through the book Laurie David has 'gifted' to us and future generations.

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Elizabeth Madden Guittar Edgartown

Wish I had known her, but it's never too late. Can't wait to read her work. Always looking for mentors to follow on this journey called "senior citizenship" aka "old age". And I have a feeling there are many, many more of my peers who feel the same way. And I don't think she'd mind the assignment. What a lady. Elizabeth

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 03/29/2015 - 12:10

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Christopher Celeste Edgartown

I have yet to read a word she has written but am moved by the spirited and expressive way she lived her life. Thank you to Laurie David for helping to gather one more collection of her poetry for folks like me to discover & enjoy.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 03/30/2015 - 09:44

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Steve Fischer Chilmark & Cambridge

Visiting with Peggy at her serenely beautiful house on Stonewall Pond, talking about books, ideas, the past, the future are memories that I will cherish forever. She was a truly remarkable woman.

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William Waterway Edgartown

Thank you, Margaret, for sharing your verse with our island and beyond.
The memory of your presence continues to live with us through your profound poetry.

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Penny mcconnel Norwich cermont

Peggy and I became friends in 1985 after I read "Winter Concert", and I fell in love with her and her writing. Yes, a glass of wine by the fire and our long, delicious and intelligent conversations made any visit to the house on the pond something very special. Peggy will always be one of the treasures of my life.

Marlene shusta Pennsylvania

Hello Tamara, so sorry for you loss... I just read my new Oprah issue and saw this article about your darling grandmother. I can't wait to get her book! I am a baby boomer and an avid reader. To be honest I never heard of her writings, but I was intrigued ! I will email you again if you like when I finish her book..., God Bless, Love, Marlene I can be reached at [email protected] I am a 68 year old grandmother..❤️❤️

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 03/31/2015 - 13:11

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Nancy Fitzpatrick Greenwich, NY

Peggy Freydberg was the finest woman I have ever known.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 04/03/2015 - 08:25

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Lucinda Keils Oak Park MI

I heard the remembrance on NPR. Now if only some enterprising publisher would re-publish her book Growing Up in Old Age in time for all of us aging boomers and the generations to follow! I'd like to give it to my 87 year old father who is also a poet. Unfortunately I can't find it. As others have said here, I look forward to reading and sharing her poetry.

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Linda Marshall Boonsboro, MD

YES! Please make this book available to those of us who learned of her only after her passing! I want a book for some favorite friends as well as for me!...particularly "Growiing Up in Old Age." Perhaps I'll begin to grow up at age 71!!!..:)

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Mary Helen Memphis TN

I have been searching for "Growing up in old age." I am a doctor of ministry student specializing in end of life issues. I'd love to read this book...if I could only get my hands on a copy. Anyone have one I might borrow/lease for a bit? I can't afford the rare book prices used bookstores that might have a copy are asking. I would take excellent careof it and return it promptly in the condition it was received. thanks so much! Mary Helen e-mail [email protected]

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 04/13/2015 - 22:10

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Tamara Sloan Ashfield, MA

Hello all,
I am Tamara Sloan, one of her granddaughters. There are a few copies of Growing up in Old Age still in her house. I'd love to get it republished, but am not sure how. If you're interested in getting a copy, please email me and I'll see what I can do. My email is: [email protected]. She was such a wonderful inspiration. Let's keep it going!

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