<p>Robert J. Carroll, the prominent Edgartown businessman, conservationist, raconteur and longtime Vineyard power player who was sometimes a lightning rod for controversy, died on March 31 at the Martha’s Vineyard Hospital. He was 90. A celebration of his life will be held at the Harbor View Hotel on Saturday, April 4, beginning at 4 p.m.</p>
Robert J. Carroll, the prominent Edgartown businessman, conservationist, raconteur and longtime Vineyard power player who was sometimes a lightning rod for controversy, died on March 31 at the Martha’s Vineyard Hospital. He was 90.
A celebration of his life will be held at the Harbor View Hotel on Saturday, April 4, beginning at 4 p.m.
During his lifetime, Bob Carroll owned the Harbor View Hotel, the Kelley House, the Seafood Shanty and as founder of Carroll and Vincent Real Estate vast areas of prime Edgartown real estate. He was an Edgartown selectman for two decades, the town assessor, a Dukes County administrator, a board member of the Martha’s Vineyard National Bank and Camp Jabberwocky, a trustee of the Martha’s Vineyard Hospital and the Martha’s Vineyard Preservation Trust, a founder of Martha’s Vineyard Community Services, the Martha’s Vineyard Boys & Girls Club and the Martha’s Vineyard Times. He established the Anchors senior center in Edgartown and led the purchase of Katama Farm by the town of Edgartown, which at the time was the largest conservation purchase in the history of the town. He sparred successfully with Sen. Edward Kennedy over the Nantucket Sound Islands conservation trust bill, and flew the senator off the Island in his private plane during the Chappaquiddick controversy.
If that sounds like enough for four lifetimes, it still doesn’t encompass all that Mr. Carroll accomplished over the years.
“I’m afraid we’ve lost a century of our cultural memory,” said Chris Scott, executive director of the Martha’s Vineyard Preservation Trust. “A drive or a lunch with Bob was living history.”
Ronald H. Rappaport, an Edgartown lawyer, concurred. “We’ve lost a great one,” he said. “Part of the unknown out there about Bob is that he was one of the most generous people on the Island. He would have given his last nickel to help someone in need.”
But lest it be thought that Mr. Carroll led merely a warm and fuzzy life, one only dedicated to the cause of helping others, here he is in his own words. “I haven’t been an angel,” he told the Gazette in one of his many interviews with the paper. “But I’ve had a good life.”
Bob Carroll was born to humble beginnings on August 15, 1924, “a poor ragamuffin” in his own words, on South Summer street in Edgartown, across the street from the Vineyard Gazette, which was the local poorhouse at the time. The Gazette, in particular its editor Henry Beetle Hough, would be the focus of numerous battles over the years.
In a 2004 interview with the Gazette, Mr. Carroll summed up what he thought of Mr. Hough like this: “An elitist snob in his own way, who did not think that the little ragamuffin from across the street should be associated with all the big shots out there.”
When asked in an interview with the Gazette how he was able to make the journey from ragamuffin to one of the wealthiest men on the Island, Mr. Carroll said that his life had changed when he decided to get sober at the age of 28, not long after he had returned from a stint in the Army. “When I got sober I started to get respect. I found if I could stay sober I could do almost anything I wanted to do,” he said.
Mr. Carroll began his climb to the top by leasing a coffee shop in Edgartown from its owner Edward W. (Peter) Vincent. “We had guys who would pay 10 cents for a cup of coffee and sit there all morning so no one else could get in,” Mr. Carroll recalled. “So I raised the price of coffee.” He then realized the town needed another restaurant, so in 1961 he bought the former Nevin Garage on Dock street and converted it to the Seafood Shanty.
Ronald (Puppy) Cavallo, now the owner of Soigne in Edgartown, was one of many who got their start at the Seafood Shanty.
“I spent 11 years with him at the Shanty starting at age 12,” Mr. Cavallo said. “He raised me as if I were family. He has always lovingly taken credit for anything and everything I have accomplished in life because he ‘taught me everything I know.’ Everything from cooking school to lovemaking techniques. Especially the latter, according to him.”
The Shanty led to the purchase of the Harbor View Hotel in 1965 and the Kelley House in 1973, both bought with his partner, state Sen. Allan F. Jones.
“The Harbor View when we bought it, the living room was full of old thunder jugs and piss pots, thunder jugs were the ones you sat on,” Mr. Carroll said. Mr. Carroll restored the Harbor View Hotel to its former and future glory, finally selling it and the Kelley House in 1986, but not before insuring that it would remain a part of his life forever, literally. As part of the sale agreement, Mr. Carroll was allowed to build himself a penthouse apartment to live in until his death.
Elizabeth Rothwell, the director of marketing at the Harbor View, referred to the man upstairs as “a dad, godfather, a mentor and the patriarch of the Harbor View. He knew everyone from the housekeepers to the engineers. And everyone loved him.”
Ms. Rothwell did admit to being “a bit shocked at the words he used. He had such an edgy sense of humor.”
Mr. Carroll also inadvertently helped out on occasion with a bit of business at the hotel, Ms. Rothwell said. “He was always taking guests to lunch, people he had just met.” Once, the sales team had brought in some important clients to woo, but then they couldn’t find them anywhere on the premises. It turns out Mr. Carroll had started a conversation with them and “they hopped into his car for a tour of the Island.” It ended up being a successful deal.
“I enjoyed having a little place to retreat to and being with Bob when it was so busy downstairs, like on July 4, ” Ms. Rothwell continued. “When we had a party, the Carroll family was always having a party upstairs.”
But the Harbor View property was also the scene of one of Mr. Carroll’s biggest battles, and his most direct adversary was Henry Beetle Hough. Mr. Carroll wanted to build two houses and a tennis court on the land between the hotel and the lighthouse. Mr. Hough and his backers argued that the land was an environmentally important and fragile wetland. The battle raged back and forth for nearly a decade. In a 1983 article in the Boston Globe, a reporter described the two adversaries this way: “Like two heavyweight boxers slugging it out, round after round, Robert J. Carroll and Henry Beetle Hough refuse to quit. And as they battle, the audience grows.”
In that same Globe article, Mr. Carroll goes on to say, “Do I really have an obligation to provide an unobstructed view of the lighthouse? Is there something wrong with a partial view?”
In the end, a compromise was formed and the wetlands remained intact, along with the unobstructed view that Mr. Carroll ended up enjoying from his penthouse apartment. For his part, Mr. Carroll received property that he would then bequeath to the Edgartown Council on Aging and become the Anchors.
Although he said otherwise, many viewed Mr. Carroll’s founding of the Martha’s Vineyard Times in 1984 with four other businessmen, as a direct result of his frequent battles with Mr. Hough.
“We’re not out to kill the Gazette,” Mr. Carroll said at the time. “I don’t intend to be the Rupert Murdoch of the newspaper business, either.”
The two adversaries were actually on the same side of one issue, although many years apart. In the 1940s Mr. Hough’s family purchased the land behind Main street in Edgartown to stop it from becoming a parking lot, and created the North Water Street Corporation. Many years later, Mr. Carroll acquired the stock to the corporation and engineered the gift of his stock to the Preservation Trust. The land is currently a park enclosed by Main street, North Water and North Summer streets, where there are two benches situated about 30 feet apart. The plaque on one bench reads Robert J. Carroll, President, North Water Street Corporation. The other bench plaque reads Henry Beetle Hough, Founder, North Water Street Corporation.
The benches were the idea of Chris Scott, who said with a laugh that he wanted to let Mr. Carroll know that the two men were forever linked together. “Mr. Carroll was not amused,” said Mr. Scott, again laughing.
If it seems odd that a hard-driving businessman would also be instrumental in conserving land, it was not a paradox for Mr. Carroll. He simply did what he thought was best for the Vineyard, and much of that had to do with wanting the Vineyard to be able to make its own decisions.
In the 1970s he led a heated and successful campaign against the Nantucket Sound Islands conservation trust bill proposed by Sen. Edward M. Kennedy. The bill would have put the bulk of the decisions about the future of the Island in federal hands.
“I feel so strongly that the worst thing that politicians and political groups can do is underestimate the intelligence of the general public,” Mr. Carroll said.
Ironically, Mr. Carroll’s defeat of the bill led the way to the creation of the Martha’s Vineyard Commission, an organization that was frequently the subject of his wrath.
And when Steven Spielberg was looking for someone to play a feisty selectman in Jaws, he didn’t have to look very far. Mr. Carroll not only scored the acting gig, he put up most of the cast and crew at the Kelley House — for a sizeable amount which helped him pay the mortgage at a crucial moment in the hotel’s history.
But perhaps Mr. Carroll’s most lasting legacy, according to all who spoke about him following his death, was how much he cared about the Island and the people who lived and visited here.
“He knew how to mix with the summer people and the Island people,” said Bridget Tobin, manager of the Steamship Authority’s Oak Bluffs terminal. Ms. Tobin first met Mr. Carroll over the phone, when she was a reservations operator, and that was enough to begin a friendship that lasted decades.
“You knew where you stood with him. And that’s what made him unique,” she said. “He taught me how to give back,” she added, before pausing to remember a comment he made recently while watching all the women disembark from the ferry. “Bridget, if my legs still worked, I’d be dangerous.”
Geno Courtney, another prominent Edgartown businessman, was reached sitting on a bench on Main street, a place where he and Mr. Carroll conducted many meetings. The two men had been friends since the early days of the Seafood Shanty, when Mr. Courtney was an apprentice barber in Oak Bluffs and would visit the restaurant after work for a drink. Mr. Carroll helped him get his start by opening the paper store in Main street in Edgartown, the first of what would be many properties Mr. Courtney currently owns.
“I lost a real good friend,” Mr. Courtney said. “And it’s a loss for the community.”
Mr. Carroll’s daughter, Sue Carroll, said that her father was “electrified by people. Of course, beautiful women, but all people. He connected with people in a way that was rare. Some that he had met for only 15 minutes.
“He loved life and that was a gift he gave to all of us,” she said.
Looking back at his own life, Mr. Carroll once summed it up like this: “Anything I owned, we had a good time. I didn’t believe in being miserable.”
He was married twice, first to Lucille G. Hillman, with whom he had four daughters, and later to Rebecca B. Welton, who both survive him.
He is also survived by his daughters: Sue Carroll and her husband Jerry Grant of Edgartown, Jane Joyce of Edgartown, Sarah Bray and her husband John of Arcade, N.Y., and Mary Ellen Goodsir and her husband Rohan of Reading; his grandchildren Rob Morrison of Edgartown, Alex Morrison and his wife Maggie of Edgartown, Adam, Patrick and James Joyce of Edgartown, Zachary Bray of Cambridge and Maggie Bray of Fort Riley, Kans., and a soon-to-be first great-grandchild of Fort Riley, Kans.

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Bob was a friend, a Mentor, a
James W Klingensmith Fort Myers, Fl. Grew up in EdgartownBob was a friend, a Mentor, a man I always respected, a man who taught me business and life lessons my whole life. I will miss him greatly. He touched many lives. My sincerest Condolences to his family.
Bod was a good friend of my
John McLane San Miguel de AllendeBob was a good friend of my fathers, Bob McLane. When I got sober in 1982 he was a power of example which I truly appreciated. One time when I was down and out he gave me a box spring and mattress from storage at the Great Harbor Inn. Just a personal thing that I will always remember. My condolences to his family.
Hi John,A very long time
norma stanton The Villages,FloridaHi John,A very long time,wanted to say hello.Norma and Richard Stanton
Bob, Iam going to miss you
Rick Harrington Palm BeachBob, Iam going to miss you.Thank you for being the best father I ever had. Also Iam so grateful for your helping me with the Childrens Lighthouse mememorial in Edgartown Your Son Rick Harrington
My sincerest sympathy to the
Sandra Grant Loris, SCMy sincerest sympathy to the daughters. Be proud you had such a amazing Dad !
Bob and I worked very closely
Jane Chittick Edgartown and Washington DCBob and I worked very closely together for 15 years - he served on the Board of the Historic Preservation Trust and I was its Founding Executive Director. We also had close relationships with the late Stuart Avery and Dick (Fairleigh S.) Dickinson throughout this time, and I knew his wives and his children, when they were younger. I also remember hilarious dinners with Doc and Barbara Nevin and Bob ... and his laugh! He was a very smart businessman and unique. He did it his way and I don't think he had any or many regrets. My best to Jane and Sue and of course to Gino.
To Sue and Jane and all the
Marty Nadler Pompano Beach, FloridaTo Sue and Jane and all the family I sent my love and condolences. He was one of a kind and the one you wanted to be
with. He taught me some many life lessons and we had so many laughs. You will never be missed....Far,far too many
stories always to be told.
Bob and I worked for Renear
Judy Norton Edgartown, Ma.Bob and I worked for Renear Ford Sales for several years. There were a few things we disagreed on, but it was all done with humor. We argued some, but we were good buddies. A lot of our discussions were of God. He will be missed by all of Edgartown.
Dear Sue, Mary Ellen, Sally
Shelley Ackerman Manhattan, NY,NYDear Sue, Mary Ellen, Sally and Jane:
I am so very sad to hear of your Dad's passing. He adored all of you so much and would always brag about you. His loss is huge.Be comforted by his legendary persona, the adoration he had for you, and the profound impact he had on everyone whose life he touched. With every blessing.
Bob Carroll: Generous,
Ann Heron & Tom Prendergast Sarasota, FLBob Carroll: Generous, irascible, huge heart, pain in the butt, clever, funny, a caring very bright man who will be sorely missed for his counsel, his history & wit! Sincere condolences to his entire family. Although we knew this day was coming, the reality is still tough... Tom & Ann
I met Bob in 1984. We were
Lynn Allegaert Edgartown, MAI met Bob in 1984. We were friends from that time on. In 1996 Bob sold me my wonderful house next to the Harbor View,, the best investment I ever made. He was a frequent visitor at my home, and was present at some of my best memories of my family gatherings on the Vineyard. He came to my Mom's 90th birthday party in 2003. I will always miss his great sense of humor and sense of loyalty. My sympathy to his his family.
Just remembered a Bob Carroll
Lynn Allegaert Edgartown, MAJust remembered a Bob Carroll story's: After a lunch with Bob he drove me around the cemetary off Pease Point Way and told me about many people buried there.. He did not hold back on how he felt about some of these people. Bob told me one of my favorite jokes: what is Irish Alzheimer's? You only remember your grudges!
Love to all the family
He was right about one thing,
Jennifer Stix Vineyard HavenHe was right about one thing, well, he was right about a lot of things, actually maybe everything -- but for sure life around Bob Carroll was a good time, the years that he was in my life were some of the best and we always had a good time! I loved that man. So sad to learn that he is gone. Much of what I know about living I learned from him. What a loss for his family and so many many others, what a man, what a life! RIP
My deepest condolences to Bob
Esther Deming oak bluffsMy deepest condolences to Bob's whole family. He was quite the character. Affable and blunt at the same time ! He lives on, even on the big screen (JAWS). He will be missed !
A loss indeed but a life
Mary Ann ShiveA loss indeed but a life lived well and an example to us all.
A true and loyal friend...my
Diane Brockman Shulman Reno, NevadaA true and loyal friend...my Dad thought the world of him..
He was a riot always made me
~Woody Williams~ Vineyard Haven (Formally Edgartown)He was a riot always made me laugh as a kid and gave me good tips when I was his paper boy!!
Sue & Jane, My condolences to
Edward Pachico Washington, DCSue & Jane, My condolences to you and your families.
Bob gave so much to Camp
Camp Jabberwocky Vineyard HavenBob gave so much to Camp Jabberwocky over the years, from a long time Board Member to a beloved friend, we will miss him and are truly thankful to have known him.
I know I speak for all the
Paul Doran Dartmouth, MA.I know I speak for all the Shanty gang during my years there when I say that we all felt very supported by Bob's enthusiasm for what we were doing upstairs all those summer nights. In spite of his brusque personality he was a real softy who would always help if you needed it. God speed Bob. You had a good effect on a lot of people.
Sorry but Bob wanted nothing
Bob EdgartownSorry but Bob wanted nothing to do with God he was many things but Church was not
one of them.
Bob was one of a group of ww2
John Osborn Edgartown and Mechanicsburg, pa.Bob was one of a group of ww2 veterans I remember returning to Edgartown after the war. Bob found his place which was in all things to do with the town. He was always one who was interested in everyone and would enter into conversation about anything. A great person and a member of a prominent family of the town. Sorry about his passing,and admire his legacy left to the town.
MaryEllen,
Kerri Johnson Boston, MAMaryEllen,
Sending you love, energy and strength. Thinking of you and your family. I am terribly sorry for your loss. - kerri
It was a pleasure having met
Peter Spadetti Rhode IslandIt was a pleasure having met Mr. Carroll several times on visits to the Island.
Being a big Jaws fan and follower, I loved all of his involvement in the success of the film.
He was a true pioneer of the development and success of the growing island, a true icon.
He will be truly missed.
I had the privilege and honor
Alison Higgins DiPanfilo Natick, MAI had the privilege and honor to be a “Roll and Relish” girl and then a waitress at the Harbor View from summer 1976 to summer 1983. Working for Mr. Carroll along with Chef, Marie, Norm, Scott, Kathy, Charlotte and Leslie brings back such fond memories. What an awesome crew to work with for so many years!!! One personal story to share. Bob use to hand-picked me to serve cocktails and hor d'oeuvres in his pent house before he and guest attended one of many concerts at the Old Whaling Church. He would say to me “take your time, relax and finish up the shrimp” as he walked out the door. I felt special. He was a kind, giving, smart and straightforward man. My condolences to his loving family. Thank you all for often taking second fiddle while your husband and Dad was a successful business man for so many years.
My heartfelt condolences to
Kristine Hanna University Park, FloridaMy heartfelt condolences to the family.
When I walked into the real estate office and asked Bob to sell my home during Preston's illness he took me under his wing and set me in the right direction. This set me up to take care of my girls after Preston's death. A truer friend no one could ever have.
I remember him when I was 17
Ivan Drechsler Tubac, ArizonaI remember him when I was 17 in 1969, a wonderful person to admire his position and his "power".I worked in his organization and appreciated his strengths! The mold has been broken, adieu.
Our family extends our
The Family of the late Frederick "Huddy" Worden, Jr.and Dorothy WordenOur family extends our deepest sympathies to you and your families.
Condolences to family and
Jessica Sawyer Washington, DCCondolences to family and friends. Bob always made you feel like he was happy to see you. He always had stories to tell and always made me laugh. He was one of the strong characters that made growing up in Edgartown in the 50s and 60s so very special. I will miss his wit and charm.
He will indeed be sorely
Jeffrey Kramer Los Abgeles.He will indeed be sorely missed!. He was wise, funny and right on the money! He made a big difference for the Island and this is a great loss for all of us. he made the Island safer for me and I respect, honor and covet his memory! I send much comfort, strength and sympathy to his family! Jeffrey Kramer
Bob thank you for all of the
Anonymous Newton, MaBob thank you for all of the memories...I will never forget you...I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU!
I knew Bob first from the old
John Alley West TisburyI knew Bob first from the old Shanty then we served together as Airport Commissioners, When the County funded the Chamber of Commerce he often gave advise blunt and to the point. Excellent obit, only one correction; the paper that he Freddy Ferro and Al Brickman founded was the Grapevine that later became the MVTimes. My condolences to his family.
My wife Gillian (Lamb) was a
Alan Butchman Seattle, Washington (and Oak Bluffs)My wife Gillian (Lamb) was a waitress in the Coffee Shop, the first summer (1959) and has some wild tales of that experience. I swabbed the decks and was afternoon bartender at the Seafood Shanty summer of 1963. Bob was a cherished friend for many years. I remember one night after the Shanty closed that Bob allowed us to take the piano to South Beach where Johnny Cassel tried, unsuccessfully to play so that we could hear him over the pounding surf and through the fog. Even the roaring bond fire couldn't keep the piano dry - it was a total loss by the end of the night - Bob didn't care, he enjoyed the party. One more story - when I was under consideration for a government job, the FBI was doing a background check and came to MV to interview Bob. He told me his response was "I don't know what job he is being considered for, but he cleaned the toilets, kitchen and rest of the Shanty so he is qualified to anything you want him to do in Washington, DC." That was vintage Bob. We will miss him greatly. Much love to his family.
He was also briefly married
Bob EdgartownHe was also briefly married to a wonderful lady Edwina Brooke Petit who matched him will for fire and charm.
To all of Bob`s family my
Janet Norton EdgartownTo all of Bob`s family my condolences -- A light has gone out in Edgartown and all of the Vineyard- Bob and my father , Stuart Avery had a very close business relationship -- sometimes good natured sometimes at odds but they were always friends and they worked together for many years especially on the Martha`s Vineyard Preservation trust together because of the love they shared for the Vineyard. I had a wonderful call from Bob a few weeks ago --He called me to thank me for the placemats that I sent him by way of Sue- He was vey gentle and kind and genuinely appreciative of my gift -- Thank you Bob and rest in peace
Bob was a great person and a
Connie Schorr Finch Birmingham, Al.Bob was a great person and a wonderful friend. He loved his family and spoke of them
often to me the last time I was on the Vineyard.
Condolences to the family.
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