<p>Cynthia Riggs of Martha’s Vineyard and Dr. Howard R. Attebery of San Diego are delighted to announce their engagement to be married this coming spring, 2013.</p> <p>The couple met 62 years ago in San Diego where Ms. Riggs had a college job sorting plankton at the Scripps Institution of Oceanography’s Point Loma Lab. Dr. Attebery was already working at the lab. To ease the boredom of sorting plankton, the two exchanged notes written in code on paper towels.</p>
Cynthia Riggs of Martha’s Vineyard and Dr. Howard R. Attebery of San Diego are delighted to announce their engagement to be married this coming spring, 2013.
The couple met 62 years ago in San Diego where Ms. Riggs had a college job sorting plankton at the Scripps Institution of Oceanography’s Point Loma Lab. Dr. Attebery was already working at the lab. To ease the boredom of sorting plankton, the two exchanged notes written in code on paper towels.
This past February, Ms. Riggs received a package containing the notes that Dr. Attebery had kept all those years. This triggered a correspondence that led to Ms. Riggs’s trip to San Diego in September and a proposal of marriage from Dr. Attebery.
Dr. Attebery served in the U.S. Army in WW II. He has had a long, distinguished and varied career in public health and pediatric dentistry, microbiology, photomicrography and research involving anaerobic bacteria. He served as public health dentist for both Santa Cruz County and Sonoma County in California, and was research dentist at the UCLA School of Dentistry. His work has been published widely in numerous professional journals. In addition, his interests have included photography, ornithology, glass-etching and natural history. As a young athlete, he was a discus and javelin thrower. A passionate lover of nature, he volunteered for many years at the Tijuana Wildlife Refuge.
Dr. Attebery had two sons, the late Paul Attebery and the composer Mark Attebery. Mark and his wife, Jennifer, and their two children, Luke and Sophia, live in Nyack, N.Y., where Mark teaches music.
“One should know by now never to underestimate Ms. Riggs,” wrote C.K. Wolfson in the Martha’s Vineyard Times. “Educated as a geologist, she taught at the Annapolis Sailing School, lived on a 44-foot houseboat for 12 years while running the Chesapeake Bay Ferry Boat Company, was a rigger at Martha’s Vineyard Shipyard, and in her late 60s, she earned an MFA in creative writing from Vermont College, and has, in each ensuing year, produced one of the Vineyard-based, Victoria Trumbull mysteries.”
Ms. Riggs is descended from a long line of Martha’s Vineyard sea captains and their strong and independent womenfolk. Her father was an experimenter for Thomas A. Edison and later became
an eminent educator; her mother, a poet and writer. She made two trips to the Antarctic, one as a scientist with the Smithsonian Institution aboard the research vessel Eltanin, the second as a journalist sent by the National Science Foundation to the continent, where she was the seventh woman to set foot on the South Pole.
She had five children, William Stoertz and his wife Fujiko of South Korea and their two daughters, Masha and Sayaka; James Stoertz and Paula Collins of Winston-Salem, N.C. and his three children, Nasser, Aaron and Rosemary; the late Dr. Mary Wilder Stoertz and her husband Dr. Douglas Green of Athens, Ohio and their two sons, Kevin and Duncan; Ann Stoertz Ricchiazzi and her husband Dr. Paul Ricchiazzi of Santa Barbara, Calif. and their two sons, Steven and Daniel; and Robert Harris-Stoertz and his wife Dr. Fiona Harris-Stoertz of Peterborough, Ontario, Canada and their four children, Wulfric, Rowen, Morgan and Skye Willow.
In March, Dr. Attebery and his son, Mark, will motor his camper from San Diego to Martha’s Vineyard where Dr. Attebery and Ms. Riggs plan to have a quiet ceremony of commitment shortly after Dr. Attebery’s arrival. A wedding will follow in late May at the West Tisbury Congregational Church. Later this summer, a potluck reception at the Cleaveland House is planned, to which all family and friends, both Island and off-Island, are invited.
The couple will make their home in the Cleaveland House, Ms. Riggs’s ancestral home in West Tisbury.

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Congratulations to 2
nancy kent/jenny's mom piermont, n.y.Congratulations to 2 exceptional people who deserve much happiness in the time to come.
Cynthia - My friend, Jerry
Ned Rosen Delray Beach, FLCynthia - My friend, Jerry Abarbanel, with whom you conversed recently during a train ride, called to tell me about you. What a delightful life story! I am happy for you and your intended partner for the rest of your journey. Best wishes for happiness and good health. Ned, Antioch, 1953
Congratulations! You never
Fatima BostonCongratulations! You never know where life takes you. To a beautiful couple, may God bless you two with a long and happy marriage.
Very glad to hear of your
Barbara Pancoast Pocatello IDVery glad to hear of your happiness, to one of my favorite authors, all the best.
My word, Cynthia ! Nice to
Gregory B. New YorkMy word, Cynthia ! Nice to see that you are working on your next book, a romantic novel that takes place in San Diego and Martha's Vineyard. I can speak only of one main character, at the moment, the female lead who is an absolutely wonderful woman from the West Tisbury-Edgartown Road. I send only the best wishes of love to you both !
Dearest Cynthia and Howard!!!
Sara Brooks South Yarmouth, Ma.Dearest Cynthia and Howard!!! What a wonderful surprise to see the morning paper with Sean Gonsalves article regarding you recent wedding!!! Think of what a wonderful story this can be along with cryptic notes!!! My father-in-law wrote personal notes that way....harkens
back to a special time when privacy was treasured!!! I am so excited about your new book...and of course, your new life....love prevails!! I remember so well the day we met
at the Pondside Gift and Book shop...we had a wonderful visit! My husband and I still hope
to get to your B&B one of these summers....Howard sounds like such a loving and fascinating
man! Best to you both. Sara
What a romantic and beautiful
Lucy Earl Forest Park, GAWhat a romantic and beautiful story. I saw a clip of your story on CBS and it truly brighten my day. It œis so amazing how true love never grows old. I wish you both a wonderful and happy life together.
I am like so many others who
Kadie De Sena Pomona CA 91766I am like so many others who in their heart know/pray that true love does exist; rejoiced. I cried tears of joy, as I read the story. They are both beyond exceptional. So perfectly matched that I am certain many Angels and G-d is smiling. Bless you both, and may love further enrich your exciting and productive lives.....
P.S. This is one book I look forward to reading...inspired by love, faith, and fate
Fairytales do exist. What a
C Dixon UtahFairytales do exist. What a beautiful love story! May you both have a wonderful life together!
Cynthia and Howard, Thank you
Bethany Clark Ashburn, VACynthia and Howard, Thank you for sharing your story. We thoroughly enjoyed your romance briefly recounted on the CBS Sunday Morning Show. Yours is the stuff of true love stories. Many warm wishes and blessings on your new union.
It just goes to show that
Christine New YorkIt just goes to show that love never dies! God Bless them!
I like to save quotes in
Mary Herrington Atlanta, GAI like to save quotes in Notes on my iPhone. "Love is a great place to spend the rest of your life." Now that's a keeper. Thanks, Howard. Congratulations to you both. Cynthia, I am looking forward to reading your novels. Your real life experiences would make an excellent read : ).
I listened to Cynthia's Moth
Lynn Gariepy Montreal, QuebecI listened to Cynthia's Moth talk yesterday and was smiling to myself on the bus ride home. Cynthia ended the story saying that she was planning to visit Howard for the 1st time in 62 years - I'm so glad that the encounter went well! BTW, I have a man with quiet love too.
Best wishes to the Bride & Groom.
Oh my gosh, what a beautiful
Robin ChicagoOh my gosh, what a beautiful story! This should be made into a movie. God Bless-
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