Deepest Gratitude

For the past 35 years, my family has vacationed on Martha’s Vineyard.

Editors, Vineyard Gazette;

For the past 35 years, my family has vacationed on Martha’s Vineyard. Driving off the ferry has never lost its thrill. We welcome the crowded downtown, sitting in the car at the Triangle, waiting in long lines for ice cream cones at Mad Martha’s, picking up newspapers at the Edgartown Paper Store and, finally, feeling the Atlantic on our toes.

This vacation was different. On August 6, at 2:20 in the afternoon, my brother in law suffered a fatal injury from a swimming accident. Strangers pulled him onto the shoreline at South Beach and within seconds two nurses who work at the Martha’s Vineyard Hospital charged the waterfront where they immediately began CPR.

Lifeguards sprinted toward us. We saw men on four-wheelers, EMTs and police officers efficiently and precisely perform a well-orchestrated rescue. Every second counted.

Of course we watched this scene frozen in the sand, or pacing back and forth in shock. Three times, three different women held me in their arms, trying to absorb my sorrow. Strangers carried our beach chairs, umbrella, coolers, towels and canvas bags to the car. Amid those frantic moments, kindness found us. Thank you.

We returned home with a a pair of well-worn men’s relaxed fit Skechers sandals and two striped beach towels that do not belong to us. Next August, I’ll leave these items on the shoreline at South Beach. Perhaps the owners will find them and know how grateful we are for their compassion.

Susan Hinz Cloutier

Haverhill 

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Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 10/04/2023 - 12:24

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Mr. Mrs S.McClure Ertelt CONNECTICUT

God bless Cousin Bob Cloutier. May the Lord bless you Bob and watch over your sweet Julie and blessed family. Rest in peace, until we meet again. PS
Tell Billy hi xo Susan & Stephen :)♡

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 10/11/2023 - 12:15

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Joyce Guelli WALTHAM

The first paragraph, this was my family experience. I am so sorry what you're family went through and the sad loss of a family member.It is heart-warming to hear of the people who came forward to help you.I hope you will find some comfort returning to the Vineyard.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 06/29/2024 - 16:17

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Anonymous

I was there that day and mere feet away, as a nurse from NY and I also ran to help. So many people jumped and did everything possible for him. My family and I have been wondering about him since that day. May God rest his soul and keep the family.

Susan Hinz Cloutier Edgartown

Thank you for your recent note. I am here this week marking the death of my brother-in-law without my daughter and husband. My daughter did not understand why I am revisiting the place where so much trauma, fear and sadness played out in front of us on the beach. For my husband, his loss is too much to hold right now. I am here because this is the place where Bob was the happiest: He swam at sunrise at South Beach, spent too much money at Dairy Queen, rode his bike too far, and returned to the ocean every day-even in the rain. When I jump into the ocean, I embrace his Island spirit by saying: “For Bob!” You can do this too.

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