Bridget Tobin flanked by Mark Young, retired ferry captain, and Kevin Johnson.
Mark Alan Lovewell

All Aboard for Bridget Tobin Retirement Party

Lines and standby lines formed on Tuesday morning as well-wishers headed to the Oak Bluffs Steamship Authority terminal to wish Bridget Tobin well on her retirement after 44 years.

At her retirement party Tuesday morning Bridget Tobin stood by the door of the Oak Bluffs ferry terminal in her red coat and red clogs greeting people with the same warm smile that has embraced passengers at the ferry terminals for 44 years.

The long line of well wishers started at 9 a.m. and continued throughout the morning as friends and coworkers streamed in to say goodbye.

“My late husband Charlie called her The Tobin Bridge,” said Kate Taylor. “She’s a facilitator of getting people to and from the Island, and a bridge between the SSA and the community. There’s only one Bridget.”

SSA general manager Robert Davis gets ready to sign Bridget's retirement card.
Mark Alan Lovewell
SSA general manager Robert Davis gets ready to sign Bridget's retirement card.
Mark Alan Lovewell

For some, Ms. Tobin’s kindness stretched far beyond just greeting passengers and taking tickets.

“She was my savior six years ago,” said Gretchen Coleman-Thomas.

Ms. Coleman-Thomas said that while she received dialysis treatment for her kidneys she had to take the ferry to a treatment center off-Island three times a week. She said when Ms. Tobin found out, she gave her a pass to park in a reserved spot at the Vineyard Haven ferry terminal for each appointment to make her journey as comfortable as possible.

“She’s been my rock and I love her like a family member,” Ms. Coleman-Thomas said. “I knew I had to come. I adore her. She’s a wonderful human being.”

Near the ticket window, people lined up to sign a giant retirement card that read: “Enjoy your retirement, you’ve earned it!”

Kate Taylor stopped by to give well wishes.
Mark Alan Lovewell
Kate Taylor stopped by to give well wishes.
Mark Alan Lovewell

On the card notes were written to Ms. Tobin, often sharing common sentiments about her sharp memory for names and her genial personality.

“She knows everybody’s name, knows your story and always smiles when she greets you,” said Joyce Albertine. She added that Ms. Tobin was the first person she met when she moved to the Island 40 years ago.

“She’s the nicest person and a great face for the SSA,” said Denys Wortman, who gifted Ms. Tobin a photograph of the Island Home ferry replacing the Islander ferry in 2007, titled Changing of the Guards.

SSA general manager Robert Davis praised Ms. Tobin for her decades of service to the ferry, including as manager of the Oak Bluffs terminal. He said that Ms. Tobin always made sure the first face visitors saw when they arrived on the Island was a friendly one.

Ken Goldberg enjoys a moment with the lady of the hour.
Mark Alan Lovewell
Ken Goldberg enjoys a moment with the lady of the hour.
Mark Alan Lovewell

“It’s going to be sad to see her go,” he said. “The compassion she brings to the job . . . we want to make sure that legacy continues.”

Though she plans to return to work in the summers, Ms. Tobin said that saying goodbye to all of the countless passengers she’s greeted and formed friendships with has made the retirement process difficult.

“It’s so emotional and surreal,” she said. “You get so attached to the people. You watch them grow up and have a personal relationship.”

Ms. Tobin said she plans to travel during her retirement and find new outlets on the Island where she can help those in need. She said her wonderful SSA staff and helping people transition between the Island and the mainland are what she’ll miss most about the job.

As the morning progressed the line of hugs continued and the goodbye card filled up with hundreds of notes. One stuck out, an encapsulation of Ms. Tobin’s impact on the community: “You are one of a kind.”

From the archives: A Day With Bridget Tobin.

Comments

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 10/23/2018 - 16:12

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erica silverman New York

Bridget, Ethan and I will miss you and your beautiful smile. You are such an amazing person.

thank you for everything!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 10/25/2018 - 18:28

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Mike Zoll vh

Bridget, your sense of humor and directness together with your kindness has made you a special person to untold numbers of islanders and off-islanders.For me and my family, you have always tried to help us during unanticipated urgency.Knowing that you would understand and care has made all of us who know you, LOVE YOU. You gave so much of yourself to our island community: the hours on your feet in extremes of heat and cold keeping the boats on time; answering the same questions and phone calls over and over; but most of all your caring. Many ,many thanks from my family and may you have a long and happy retirement.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 10/26/2018 - 07:19

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Susan Bennett and Mark Leith OB

Bridget, you are the BEST! Always helpful, supportive, kind, and humorous...love you to the moon and back and wish you a wonderful
retirement.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 10/26/2018 - 08:44

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Edward Redd Oak Bluffs

Your bright smile warmed my heart,coming &leaving the island.You always made my family feel special.
May God continue to"FAVOR"you!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 10/26/2018 - 13:09

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Mary Ferriera White Middletown,R.I.

What more can be said about this gracious lady!! I remember how many times she came to my rescue, as well as to my daughter, Janice, and my late husbands, Joe (Boots) Ferriera and Joe White! I know I'm one of her many beloved fans who watched her for many years as she worked hard to rise to her current position! We always felt she was the 'GLUE' that kept the Vineyard Ferry Offices running smoothly, especially during the crazy summer traffic, while keeping her "cool". (well, 99% of the time :-) .... Thank you Bridget for all you've done for me and so many others all these years. ENJOY you retirement., GOD BLESS YOU.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 10/26/2018 - 15:07

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Ernie and Cindy (daRosa) Barrett Vineyard Haven

Your kindness, courtesy and awareness of the needs of so many travelers had left a wonderful impact on the SSA travelers, staff and friends. To a lady that cares and had done a tremendously wonderful job with the SSA plus. We wish you well in your health and happiness in all your future endeavors.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 10/26/2018 - 19:08

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Dee Dice Northampton

Bridget
Thanks for saving millions of little plants from dehydration, when my plant driver missed his boat and especially for "getting it" when an emergency happened. Hope you and Matt do some serious and not so serious traveling. Best to you!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 10/26/2018 - 20:30

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Nancy Joyce Trevose PA formerly of Oak Bluffs

Congratulations on your retirement Bridget! I will always remember all of the kindness you showed me over many years of living on Island and commuting to Boston for work. Enjoy your retirement!!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 10/26/2018 - 21:49

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Joe Whitmore San Miguel de Allende, GTO, Mexico

You sure bring pleasant remembrances of the island. You're the jewel in the crown!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 10/28/2018 - 13:12

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Wayne and JacquiBudd Boston and OB

Bridget: You are the best of the very best !! Thank you for being you

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 10/28/2018 - 14:37

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Paul V. Condlin Edgartown

Hey Bridget. I grew up in the same town as the Young guy standing next to you. The 1974 prom king Randolph High. Good person too. Congrats Bridget. You cared about us and we appreciate it.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 10/29/2018 - 10:40

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Margie (Cox) Abbott Cape Town

Bridget, please put Cape Town on your travel list and come and visit us! You will love this part of the world, its ocean, beaches, mountains, and wonderful food and wines. Sending love, Margie xoxoxoxo

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